If anyone doesn’t grasp that this is MY view on moneyslavery and financial servitude, please just move along now. The opinions of subs and Dommes are welcome in comments.

Instead of the usual bragging and clip-promoting (you can find My latest femdom and fetish video clips on My clips4sale store haha), I wanted to write about something that is a bit of a pet peeve of Mine: simple wankers calling themselves moneyslaves when they’re clearly not.

I shouldn’t have to state the obvious here, that I understand much of this self-labeling by wankers is just part of their fetish and fantasy play, but I will. Duh, I get it. you have a financial fetish, and calling yourself a moneyslave is part of how you get yourself off. This doesn’t mean you ought to make your official handle “moneyslave xyz”. Doesn’t that kind of dilute the whole experience for you anyway? ha

By calling yourself a moneyslave all the time, or basically anytime outside the context of a session, you’re pretty much slapping the REAL moneyslaves in the face. A moneyslave isn’t someone who just barely cracks his wallet open enough to get himself off when he’s horny or sluts all over the internet camming with every Female who calls Herself a Domme. A moneyslave is also not someone who expects a Woman to serve his needs for a few bucks. What is being described here is a wanker / paypig. you just want to get off and you don’t mind paying for it. Nothing wrong with that, but you are not a moneyslave and you don’t deserve to use that title.

A moneyslave is someone who actually wants to contribute to the well-being of (in this context) a Woman through financial sacrifice. he isn’t concerned with what he’s going to “get in return” – he surely DOES get something out of it, but it’s not a transactional thing where he gets measurable units of Y in exchange for X amounts of money.

Even if you have a cashpig fetish and enjoy sending money to whatever Women turn you on, without necessarily expecting “something” in return, you aren’t really a moneyslave. you are still just a wanker / paypig getting off on spending money for Women. A slave is someone who serves another on a consistent basis where a relationship develops and grows over time. Therefore a moneyslave is someone who FINANCIALLY SERVES another on a consistent basis, and a relationship inevitably grows with that.

I realize a lot of boys out there may actually wish to serve a Woman in some type of Findom relationship, but just haven’t found what they’re looking for in terms of a partner. Yes, I mean partner – any relationship is a partnership, whether D/s or otherwise. I consider My mr p a partner, even though he is clearly My slave and not what I consider My equal. And yet he is, in a way, My equal because I choose to have a relationship with him and obviously I like him as a person. Ironic or contradictory, perhaps. It makes sense to Me. Put another way, as My slave he is My exact opposite, which translates to My equal in the context of a D/s relationship.

Back to the point. I thoroughly dislike seeing all the wankers running around calling themselves moneyslaves when they are clearly not. It is even more annoying because I know many of you are just doing it to attract money-hungry Faux-Dommes to toy with.

The only good thing about the whole thing (for Me) is that when a boy calls himself “moneyslave xyz” it serves as a great douchebag-flag. LOL

The weekly writing from mr p

Everything’s bathed in light and the soothing sound of the beach. You stride out of the bright blue sea and look around You. The sea has made Your red hair dark. You are happy but i don’t know what You’re thinking. And i won’t be there.

It’s dark because i wake up. Hit the alarm clock, which i hate.

Check email to see if there’s anything from You. Nothing. Check twitter. No surprise that You’re still up and playing.

Go to work. It’s still snowing. Pretty.

Move through the day. Think about You. i’m glad You’re not sick anymore. i’m glad You’re better.

Still haven’t gotten over how cool and smart You are.

Go to sleep.